Memories are like Sunsets. . .

Their Beauty Fades with Time
sunset 5-3-18 jep

I see looking back at events as memories helps me to analyze my actions and interactions with others so that I can adjust my future behavior as I certainly do NOT want to be the reason someone is sad.

I see looking back and dwelling on the past, whether fond memories or not, as a precursor to miss-remembering, modification and an adulteration of that memory which can, and all too often does lead to anxieties, hurt and pain. Our access of that memory causes a modification of the original memory. Everything we have experienced in life from that original point to the point of recollection has the opportunity to cause a modification. That memory now will never be the same as the brain has a hard time separating the original from the modification.

Our past should serve as a guide to a better future, not a catalyst to pain and failure. Don’t let a ‘memory’ become a grudge. 

 

Foot Notes:

“Every time we bring back an old memory, we run the risk of changing it.”

“. . . whenever a specific memory is activated, the pathways that caused the activation change their associations to reflect that new activity.”

What Is Memory and How Does It Work?

 

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About mikkiroderick

With age comes wisdom. With wisdom comes maturity. Maturity is not synonymous with growing up. I'm still a child at heart.
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